Problems with finding a venue

The number one on my list of wedding to-dos is to find a venue.

Easier said than done.

Either western NC is a hotspot for destination weddings or there's so few event places here that everything is already booked. Or both! Also, our late October date is very popular because of the leaf season.

What we're looking for: an outdoor wedding with reception inside or under a tent (preferrably indoor) and an acceptable "plan B" option in case it rains.

Easier said than done.

We went and toured two places last Sunday. When we toured #1, our October 24th date was available. That evening I sent them an email letting them know we're interested but that we weren't ready to put a deposit down since we haven't looked at very many places. I also asked if they could give us the "right of first refusal" in case someone else is looking to book our date. I get an email the next day that says, sorry, but we've already booked October 24th. WHAT?! AAGH! Overnight??

At the time I got really upset, but I've since decided that it's okay. That takes pressure off of me to make a decision and I have the opinion that it just wasn't meant to be.

Booking a venue is still our number one priority. After this incident I've resolved not to let things like this get to me. In the end, everything will work out and be just fine.

It's funny, I'll sit here on the Internet looking at various wedding things be it venues, photographers, bridesmaids dresses, etc. and can feel myself getting upset. My heart rate goes up and the anger starts to take over. It's weird. I'll look at Chris and say, "I need to get off this thing."

That's when I turn the laptop off and spend the time with my future husband instead of Mr. Internet.